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      Honest question: how is this not the solution to the whole “trans bathroom” barking? It solves literally every issue for both sides.

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        I love bouldering. In my bouldering gym they have labelled the bathrooms with “bathroom” and “bathroom & urinal” and it works beautifully. I can definitely see that not working out in some other places though.

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        Unisex bathrooms have a worse capacity-to-space ratio compared to regular ones - aka they can’t handle as many people. Which means they’re not a suitable replacement for places with a high volume of bathroom visits.

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          in most Nordic countries, they don’t care about gendered bathrooms in a large number of places. the solution is easy- extend the doors lower and higher on the stalls. they also don’t have a problem with seat pissers for whatever reason

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            The original comment said unisex single occupant, and unisex multi occupant bathrooms are almost unheard of. I only know they exist because one arcade bar near me made their bathrooms all gender but I feel like they only get away with it due to being in a very liberal area.

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          I don’t mean to have one toilet in one larger room, but to have several(more than two) small rooms with one toilet a piece along like a hall or something. Same total square footage as a traditional public restroom, just structured to be a single occupant. Think like a line of portapotties.

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            Do the small rooms still have sinks though, or are they shared? I don’t know if I’ve ever seen a bathroom like this. Are the “rooms” the same size/layout as standard bathroom stalls, just more private?

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              I’ve seen this before. The rooms are like “traditional” bathroom stalls in size and amenities, with the sinks in one place outside. It ends up being structured a lot like a normal multi-person bathroom, just with real rooms for each stall.

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        Because public toilets in the US come with bathroom stalls that have doors with gaps. So everbody can see the people who are sitting on the toilets.

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      The real silver lining of them wanting to start being able to deport American citizens is if they do it en masse, El Salvador will end up full of physicists, doctors, professors, etc and be catapulted into a futuristic utopia.

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        The year is 2113. I’ve just graduated top of my class at the Santa Muerte penal colony in El Salvador. Like my classmates, I will begin my mission to find any remaining survivors in the North American wastelands next week.

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        So far I’ve only heard of them being Epstein’d - can’t risk knowledge of nuclear fusion falling into others hands… (/s, as if anything it was likely either capitalism or sheer blind & dumb stupidity that did this one)

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      Traditionally birds = women because they make nests

      Bees = men because they pollinate.

      Please do disregard the fact that bees make hives/nests AND birds pollinate

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            Right, but male birds are usually the “pretty” ones because they have to impress the females with their display, and bees are all female, so it seems like a terribly inaccurate metaphor, if we can even call it that

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              Yes. I pointed that out in my original comment also.

              Since birds pollinate and bees make nests, it as youve pointed out sexual dimorphism in birds tends to have them as the pretty ones.

              It’s a weak metaphor

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                They both do both, lol. Not arguing with you by the way. I’ve just never heard this as a thing before other than the birds and the bees and the flowers and the trees and the moon up above… I assume it vaguely comes from that maybe, but I’ve never heard men and women as birds and bees or whatnot

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                  Yeah the talk kids get is often called “the birds and the bees”

                  The birds are used to signify mommy making her nest and laying an egg and bees “pollinate flowers”

                  It’s a metaphor for little kids.

                  The scientific aspects of the species are moot because it’s a very basic metaphor for how sexy times works.

                  I’d also like to note that because of how ambiguously and interchangeably everything fits in the analogy I’m POSITIVE the version I’m familiar with is not the only version so it could likely be flip flopped elsewhere.

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        It’s impossible for me to forget that all bees (& wasps & ants) are order HYMENOPERTA, literally named for them being 99% virgin females

        So I am totally stumped.

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    If they can’t bother to label their doors correctly, then they clearly won’t mind which one I go into.

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    Normally bees are female, right? Worker drones are sterile female, and only when it’s queen swarm time do males get hatched.

    But honestly, as long as the stalls are enclosed, who the hell cares? We all have to do our business, and it doesn’t matter who is in the room or other stalls.

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            A guy who wants to creep is not going to be stopped by a sign.

            Maybe he will sit at a table and track who goes in and out of women’s room and wait till there is no one in there, to go to “the wrong door by accident” and hide in stall.

            A sign won’t stop them. Punishment will…if you experience that report it. Get them arrested. If they try to make it physical punch scream kick scratch.

            Its like locking your car doors. A car thief is likely to just break the window. Or just steal your catalytic converter.

            It makes you feel safe but doesn’t prevent crime.

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    I kind love these. It’s a little taste for the rest of us what a few of us must feel almost every time they enter a public bathroom.

    I ran into one and I felt afraid I would be judged for choosing a room that others didn’t expect me to.

    So I rehearsed a quick meaningless apology and took a guess.

    No one actually bothered me, but it was still a little stressful.

    And then I thought, “Oh, that’s what it feels like.”

    I also learned the same place had plenty of other bathrooms clearly labeled in a “for use by anyone” manner. So I guess if I had chickened out, I could still have found those.

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    Assert yourself, shit in your hands and smear it on the door handles. That’ll teach them (and get you arrested).