• prettybunnys@piefed.social
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    16 hours ago

    Traditionally birds = women because they make nests

    Bees = men because they pollinate.

    Please do disregard the fact that bees make hives/nests AND birds pollinate

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          5 hours ago

          Right, but male birds are usually the “pretty” ones because they have to impress the females with their display, and bees are all female, so it seems like a terribly inaccurate metaphor, if we can even call it that

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            5 hours ago

            Yes. I pointed that out in my original comment also.

            Since birds pollinate and bees make nests, it as youve pointed out sexual dimorphism in birds tends to have them as the pretty ones.

            It’s a weak metaphor

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              They both do both, lol. Not arguing with you by the way. I’ve just never heard this as a thing before other than the birds and the bees and the flowers and the trees and the moon up above… I assume it vaguely comes from that maybe, but I’ve never heard men and women as birds and bees or whatnot

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                5 hours ago

                Yeah the talk kids get is often called “the birds and the bees”

                The birds are used to signify mommy making her nest and laying an egg and bees “pollinate flowers”

                It’s a metaphor for little kids.

                The scientific aspects of the species are moot because it’s a very basic metaphor for how sexy times works.

                I’d also like to note that because of how ambiguously and interchangeably everything fits in the analogy I’m POSITIVE the version I’m familiar with is not the only version so it could likely be flip flopped elsewhere.

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      15 hours ago

      It’s impossible for me to forget that all bees (& wasps & ants) are order HYMENOPERTA, literally named for them being 99% virgin females

      So I am totally stumped.