• drhodl@lemmy.world
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    When my cat does this, he’s trying to get my attention. If I stand up, he will lead me where he wants me to be. Usually, he takes me to his food bowl, or to the special spot we have for brushes and pats. Sometimes though, he wants me to look outside, because his nemesis, the white cat from up the road, is visible, and sometimes he wants me to open the door for his pal, the black cat from across the road. There can be quite some depth to cat communication, but as with humans, it starts with paying attention. Your cat is a cutie.

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      That’s what our older girl does; she’s so polite about it, she won’t even make eye contact sometimes: just sit and patiently wait until we glance in her direction and then cry and try to lead us.

      Our younger boy cries the moment he sees us and then just gets more insistent until he’s given attention.

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    As others have said, definitely affection. Your cat loves you and is hanging out with you!

    Easiest way to show it back, is to blink slowly back at your cat. Shows trust back to them!

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    I mean if they’re slow blinking while staring it means they like you. But some cats just like staring at things for no particular reason.

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      I hope so, cause he does this stuff a lot. He likes to sit in the coffee table while we’re watching tv and just stare at us.

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    Your cat loves you and is trying to understand you. Trying to figure you out.

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    I call mine The Fabulous Staredycat Sisters. If they’re not sleeping, eating, or drinking, they’re usually staring at me, each other, or both 😄

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      This is absolutely the correct answer. The stare sans slow blinks is them wanting you you to do something. The language barrier cuts off the meaning of the request and creates a recurring headache if you can’t figure it out.

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    I honestly believe they are communicating with us telepathically. They look at us intently, think “I’m hungry, feed me.” And you look up from your phone and look at them staring at you, and you say “Aw, sweetie, you’re so pretty! Why are you staring at me? Oh, look at the time! Are you hungry? Let’s get you something to eat!” And then you do it.

    In her mind, she telepathically ordered you to feed her, and you did. Obviously, telepathic communication works, especially after it’s worked in multiple instances.

    Which also means that if she orders you to do something, and you don’t, it means you are just being an obstinate little bitch.

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      Probably cats get very confused with our actions because of our more advanced thought process and mental model, we do things without stimulation. So they try to find behavior patterns to it.

      We do the same with other people, but animals are more sensible to it.