• cm0002@infosec.pubOP
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    7 hours ago

    Well atp, it’s just genetics and hormones, which isn’t really her fault either lol

    • wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      6 hours ago

      Long as it’s still the man’s fault for desiring intimacy, am I right or am I right ladies?

      The assumption that it’s always a neglectful husband causing marital issues is incredibly demoralizing, especially when the response to “but what if it isn’t a neglectful husband” is this sort of thing. Just more reasons why the man is the one being unreasonable.

      Look, no man is “owed” their wife’s affections or physical intimacy. But it is often an important piece of an adult romantic relationship, and it’s not unreasonable for a member of that relationship to have some feelings about things changing over time, or suddenly for that matter.

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      7 hours ago

      If that’s your perspective, is anyone ever responsible for anything? Or is it all just genetics and hormones

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        6 hours ago

        What stupid take.

        If your hormones tell you to punch someone you should be reasonable enough not to do it.

        If your hormones make you not horny, you shouldn’t force yourself to have sex.

        Those are two totally different things.