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  • So, you still don’t understand why it wouldn’t be appropriate to react strongly in a room full of kids is what you’re saying.

    It’s not an ad hominem when calling out your inability to comprehend the reason for that is the entire point to my comment. It highlights a severe deficiency in your social awareness at the bare minimum, which doesn’t reflect well on your ability to discern the motives of other people online. Does that spell it out directly enough?

    Fine, let’s put that aside. In your eyes, what would have been an appropriate response for Bush to take in that situation? This ought to be entertaining.




  • Edit: Since people have a problem with this comment, the image is a still frame from a video of the bombimg. Awful.

    There are links in the replies, which were not present when I made this comment (it was the first comment on this post).

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    What’s going on is atrocious, but do we have any evidence whatsoever this isn’t just five minutes in photoshop? It’s not hard to put a bomb silhouette in the sky and blur it a bit.

    The timing of this image, the fact that the photographer got the image out, and as far as I’m aware there’s not a follow up with the aftermath just tweaks my bullshit sense is all.







  • The issue is that Linux shouldn’t be making any attempts to handle this at all.

    If the various governments are going to try and require this, they can make and maintain their own forks and accept all the responsibility and risk that entails. Or the businesses beholden to the laws can. We have no obligation to make this easier on them, and every reason to make it harder.

    If various Linux (and Linux software/component) maintainers would hold the line, we’d be fine.

    The godawful mess of what would come from all of these different groups scrambling to implement their own solutions would be the fucking point. The most effective way to manage upwards at people who don’t understand or want to listen is to make them feel pain for their shitty decisions.


  • As others have said, time. Also, the realization and repeated internal reminders to yourself that they were not who you thought they were.

    It’s very easy to build up someone in your head to be better than they are and to fill in the gaps with positive assumptions, especially when you’re crushing on them. You have to realize that those fuzzy feelings were in your head. The feelings weren’t based off reality, and they obviously weren’t the same feelings in that person’s head. At the very least, those feelings weren’t based off the full person, because you didn’t know them fully.

    The version of them you liked didn’t exist, because that version wouldn’t be (in this specific case) homophobic, ableist, hating special needs students, and making fun of you behind your back.

    Yes, it may hurt to remind yourself of the reasoms they are shit, but it’ll hurt less than allowing yourself to pine for a “what could have been” that was based off a version of them that only existed in your head.







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    18 days ago

    The fuck I am.

    You’re the one that equivocated military service (and implied killing through it) to simply

    [choosing] wellbeing over others’ lives

    Choosing wellbeing over others’ lives is the thing almost all of us do almost fucking constantly, and explicitly what I was talking about.

    Military service and murdering people is not.

    Edit: Draw your line in the sand wherever you want, murder is a perfectly valid line to have and one I agree with.

    Just don’t pretend that you don’t choose wellbeing over others’ lives too. If your issue is with military service and murder, stick with that.


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    18 days ago

    The overwhelming majority of people do, and not even for wellbeing, purely for comfort.

    Did you consider the workers at foxcon, where suicide is so prevalent they have had to make multiple changes to the building including massive fucking nets outside each window to stop jumpers, when you last bought nearly any bit of tech? Pretty much every device with cell data connectivity sources parts from them, and so do many other pieces of tech. How about all the children in rare materials mines where materials for tech are sourced?

    Personally I find this argument highly hypocritical. The basic fact that you’re posting here all but guarantees you have chosen comfort, not even actual wellbeing, over others lives too.

    Edit: and to be clear, so do I. I just find it darkly funny when people pretend that their personal line in the sand is a difference of whether or not they do at all rather than simply a difference in degrees of separation. It’s nearly impossible to exist in modern society without doing this sort of thing, so get over yourself.