They’re disempowering themselves. Describe themselves as a victim of circumstance, powerless and without responsibility. It’s a disempowering narrative. You’re shooting yourself in the foot. In this story that we live, you are casting yourself as an npc.

On the flip side, saying “I can’t” adds authority to your argument. You’re citing an unstoppable force as the root cause of your actions. So it’s a tradeoff that way.

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    I appreciate the optimism, but if “Anything is possible” I doubt a majority of people chose to be poor.

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          I can’t do that [because I respect myself too much]. Not everything needs to be said aloud.

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        Mean there are more poor people so…sort of?

        Yes I know the social equallibriam of it all, but only the people can change it too. Never thought I’d see the US fall so quickly in my lifetime and hopefully people will realize that.

        I’m also Canadian so can’t do much else but post about it.