It hasn’t been that much longer of a break for me (4 and a half day weekend), but new years doesn’t usually have me going to several dinners like Christmas or Thanksgiving and I actually got some really good rest, but I’m extremely upset at the idea of going back to work, it doesn’t help that I don’t like my job, but I’m too the point that I want to breakdown and/or quit. I’ve had similar experiences in school, and I’m curious to see if others have this or just me
It can be crushing.
I definitely feel this. It was worse before I was medicated too. One thing that’s helped me, is getting on a schedule I like at work. It won’t be possible for everyone, but I work 4 ten hour shifts, 9-8, Sunday, Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday. It means I never end up tied up in the same thing too long, and gives me more breaks, and an easier first day of the week.
I can’t take vacations because if I do I’ll quit my job.
I don’t come back refreshed and relaxed. I come back pissed that I have to continue slaving away just to barely survive.
Facts, Nothing like making somebody else rich
I on the other hand am ready for my kids to go back to school where they have instructors who are trained, and staff to cook, feed and clean up after them, as well as friends to converse with that they can get their energy out with as opposed to constantly being all up in my face. I LOVE my kids so much but the office is gonna seem like a vacation. Note that I’m COMMISSION ONLY so it’s not like I’m not in a somewhat stressful spot there either….
I was laid off at the end of summer, and am just starting a new job this week. The level of anxiety is real, even knowing the new job is less responsibility (and money) than my previous one.
Good luck with your new “first day of school!” Hope it goes well!
Yes it is your body warning you about the degree of longterm burnout that you are being forced to normalize by life that it cannot.
Not thinking about work for a couple of weeks has been soo relaxing. I’m starting to think I should just take a week off every once in a while just to help offset capitalism’s constant demands. 40 hours my ass. I only work like 10 of those each week.
An option I found quite relaxing was, rather than taking a week off, take Wednesdays off for 5 weeks. Now you only have 2 day work weeks, and a day off when everything else is open and relatively quiet.
That sounds amazing. I’m definitely going to look into this!
I worked 4 10 hour days with Wednesdays off for an entire year at a previous job.
It was the happiest I’ve ever been while working.
Never working longer than two days in a row does something good to the mind and body.
There is quite a bit of scientific evidence that doing so also just makes you more productive at work, which might be the most infuriating part for me.
I’ve been off since 18th December and have no wish to return. I want to continue to eat cheese, chutney, and crackers at home whilst playing Atomfall. Wage-paying Bastards.
I’ve been dreading returning to work for the past week during break. Even more so now that RTO is mandatory for the the whole company. I’m desperately looking for remote work elsewhere but it’s been fruitless so far. Why can’t upper management just let its office workers do their jobs the best way they see fit? The announcement from a few months ago already worsened the attrition rate to at least one engineer every week.
Because they only know how to manage by walking around.
The problem is that the talent walks out.
I am right there with you on this one.
I’m a freelancer but can’t really shoulder the financial ups and downs. So I worry I can’t find a stable job but I also worry I will find a stable job.
Amen.
Anytime I have more than like, 4 days off, I always have a worry in the back of my head that I’ll forget how to do my job lol. Its never happened, but I still always worry.
I get this ever time I switch jobs. Like “did I just forget a core skill I’ve spent my life so far mastering? I think I did. Or worse, I’ve been doing easy mode and now it’s gonna get too hard and I can’t do it”
But I always do fine 🤷♂️
Back to school in the morning after 2 weeks.
Halp.
I’m getting off a two week break. I wouldn’t say I’m overwhelmed just… Exhausted by the thought.
Also think I should try week long breaks more often…
I go back to the workplace after being off since 12/20. I am low-key fretting as I have 3-4 new staff starting tomorrow to prep tech for, and said tech came in barely two days prior to vacay; aka no time to prep them beyond getting them into our management system. And the above isn’t even factoring in my day-to-day tickets.
Don’t get me wrong, I like my job, but I like being off and lazy way more.
