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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • I’m a “software engineer.” One of the most interesting jobs I’ve had was working on a team of (mostly) electrical engineers at an industrial tool manufacturer. Most of the team designed electronics (primarily IC’s) for the controls. A few of us designed software that interacted with said controls.

    That experience taught me that engjneering, at its core, is just solving problems in a given domain with a a specific set of “tools”. I was amazed by how much thought process overlap there is between software and electronics engineering.

    My job is solving business problems. Writing code is auxiliary to that. And even though I don’t have have a degree or any certifications, none of the people on that team ever talked down to me or tried to make me feel inferior.










  • but my doctor said I just wasn’t trying hard enough. Broke my spirit.

    That’s how you know you’re talking to the wrong doctor. “Just try harder” is not a solution to executive function disorders. If it were, I would have been a “straight A” student instead of a barely passing one. Stimulants revealed, among numerous other things, that I actually can do math and I’m not a complete and utter moron. My brain just has a physical defect whereby some parts of it are unable to sufficiently absorb neurotransmitters.

    Through my extensive experience with doctors, I have learned that generally speaking – not always, mind you – doctors are familiar with their own narrow field and nothing outside of it. They also often have as much hubris than the average person and, much like the rest of us, tend to feel threatened by the unknown.

    You need to find a doctor that that is either familiar with ADHD and how to effectively treat it, or one who is at least willing to work towards improving your quality of life and is willing to do some serious trial and error to that end.