The trains did not in fact run on time.

https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/loco-motive/

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2016-11-15/stop-saying-mussolini-made-the-trains-run-on-time

This would just setup Vance for eternal president though. He doesn’t walk away from that.

I don’t think you understand the command structure of the US Armed forces.

You’re absolutely correct.

Rank and file grunts may be gargling nazi balls, but the officer pool are often college educated and will not hand over America to a dictatorship. It’ll take a decade just to fire all the officers who won’t follow his illegal orders. Another decade to reform into a stazi.

The secret police will be local police forces organized under a Fed Dept probably Homeland or ICE.

How is Trump the cure for any of that?

He did however trip on the bar on his way out though

You don’t have a lot of confidence in five year olds

Explain like I’m five.

I work in a very large tech company. I curse like a fucking sailor around some people and use my church voice around others. Expletives lose their punch when used too often.

I wouldn’t apologize or bring it up further. The time for an apology about language spoken in the heat of the moment is as soon after as possible.

The best apology is a change in behavior.

Good luck navigating this, you can see how contentious a topic it is by the comments in this thread. But it boils down to know your audience, and believe people when they tell you they have a problem.

Of course there’s nuance. I was just sharing what I’ve had to learn is all. I hope your relationship with your mom is good or better than it was in the past. If that’s what you want or if that works for y’all.

Likely longer as the “stop the steal” nonsense lawsuits start rolling through

https://dl.rockylinux.org/pub/rocky/9/isos/x86_64/Rocky-9-latest-x86_64-dvd.iso

Hurt people hurt people. Past trauma informs how we interact sure, but it doesn’t excuse perpetuating that cycle upon others. A lover isn’t required to be a therapist or a parent.

You’ll find a way through all of this. If you can afford it, a therapist may help.

I went no contact with my narcissist mom. I have ADHD. The final straw was when my grandma (her mom) was dying of bone cancer, and my mom had just got her second divorce. Instead of staying with her mom and being palliative care, and saving money for both of them. She moved to a very expensive apartment near me. When I already had a move planned. I told her I was moving and that she should stay at my grandma’s and help her out. For 4 months she begged me not to move to my dream job and stay with her because she was so lonely in her new town. Like what the fuck. You just left your mother, in her dying months. Where your sister and your brothers and their family live in this massive support network. To a city where your child has told you they’re leaving? What the fuck?

I sold everything I owned, moved in with my gramma, called the job and asked if they’d hold the position for a few months while I get care setup with my aunts and uncles. Mimi died 5 weeks later. My mother didn’t show up to the funeral. I never talked to her again.

I think about my mom every few days. But I’ll never speak to her again. People have no meaning to her.

Going no contact was the best decision I ever made.

I have no idea what will work for you. But I’ve grown and become a better person without having to expend so much energy on my mom. You might find the same benefit in your situation.

You have value, you matter. You must have qualities another partner would be interested in. Or else your ex never would have tried to be with you in the first place. Beware though as soon as you’re showing competence without her she’ll lovebomb the shit out of you.

Good luck.

Considering it’s tailscale, one may want to have the service fail though as tailscale is sometimes not used for convenience but security concerns instead.

The last time SNL was this sure of a candidate win, Hillary lost to Trump. I wish they’d push the message of Vote, more than the charming cult of personality.

I fucking hate how right I was.

Delay the start of your containers with the tailscale dependency. Are you using required or depends_on in your docker-compose.yml

https://hatchjs.com/docker-compose-conditionally-start-service/

If you’re using kubernetes you can make the requirements at the pod level

https://stackoverflow.com/questions/69423932/container-initialization-order-in-pod-on-k8s

Edit: If using docker-compose.yml you can set a condition on a healthcheck

You can also specify a condition that must be met before the service is started. For example, the following configuration will start the web service only if the db service is healthy:

version: ‘3.7’
services:
web:
image: nginx
depends_on:
– db
condition: service_healthy

The service_healthy condition checks the health of the db service using the docker-compose ps command. If the db service is healthy, the web service will be started.