Haters have no gender.
Same with men who hate gays, trans people or people with a different skin colour really
Where are these men? I’ve never met one. I know men who hates some particular women but never anyone who hates all of them. Perhaps hate isn’t the best word to describe what you actually mean here.
Thats like a racist saying that there are some good blacks
Saying “I’ve never met a man who hates all women, only specific ones” is not the same as a racist saying “I hate all black people except a few good ones.”
The first is observing that blanket hatred of an entire sex is rare. The second is still expressing racial hatred while making a token exception. Equating the two is a false equivalence that dodges the actual point.
Men who hate women in generally will usually keep it to themselves in public for the most part. They’re not going to go on a tirade about how much they hate women to someone they don’t think is going to disagree with them, which might explain why you’ve not seen it personally.
And have you seriously never heard of incels? I’m not saying hating women is inherent to inceldom, but it’s pretty damned pervasive among them. Especially in online spaces.
Here’s some reading if you can be bothered.
https://www.splcenter.org/resources/reports/mens-rights-movement-spreads-false-claims-about-women/
Isn’t that always the case with haters? Your downvotes show there are even a few here in this very community… disappointing. Or maybe it’s just the mansplainy way you worded this: “in my experience” for something that’s blatantly obvious to everyone.