I don’t have that faith any more, but I used to be devout and associated almost exclusively with religious people. When I work as a missionary, my life focused only on God and church work, the prospect of dying didn’t feel significant to me. It was unfortunate, like getting ill, but nothing dire. It actually made it difficult for me to sympathize when I was helping comfort people who had a loss in their family. It led me to thinking that most people don’t actually believe their loved ones are going to a better place or that they’re going to see them again. Their grief is closer to how I would react to irrevocable loss.
In short, I’ve learned that people grieve a lot differently than I do. I don’t think it proves people care about someone more just because they’re constantly bawling and inconsolable.
I don’t have that faith any more, but I used to be devout and associated almost exclusively with religious people. When I work as a missionary, my life focused only on God and church work, the prospect of dying didn’t feel significant to me. It was unfortunate, like getting ill, but nothing dire. It actually made it difficult for me to sympathize when I was helping comfort people who had a loss in their family. It led me to thinking that most people don’t actually believe their loved ones are going to a better place or that they’re going to see them again. Their grief is closer to how I would react to irrevocable loss.
In short, I’ve learned that people grieve a lot differently than I do. I don’t think it proves people care about someone more just because they’re constantly bawling and inconsolable.