• JasonDJ@lemmy.zip
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    3 days ago

    Pfft you think that’s bad, what about having to remember to contact your doctor for refills?

    Every fucking month.

    Now I’ve got a kid who is on stimulants too. Bad enough I gotta remember to call my doc, now I have to remember to call his, too.

    And worse, I’m on Vyvanse 40mg and he’s on Adderall ER 10mg. These are both blue-and-white capsules. I freak out every time I give him meds that I’m accidentally giving him mine.

    He has one left. I need to call his doctor. But instead I’m thinking of making a meme about it.

    But if either (or god forbid, both) of us go unmedicated, we set each other completely off. We are so alike it’s uncanny, and I have no idea how to deal with myself from the outside. I was handled with verbal abuse so I learned to internalize everything. That’s something I try very, very hard to not pass down.

    Update: I called the doctor, they are submitting a refill. Thanks op for reminding me, kinda.

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      2 days ago

      And gosh forbid they are “out”, cause you can only check 3 days before you run out. Nothing like being treated like a criminal because of a medical condition.

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        Nothing like being treated like a criminal because of a medical condition.

        I swear to god. This is the part that makes me really angry. Sorry I can’t help my invisible medical condition.

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        2 days ago

        Oh I know. Especially with Vyvanse. It’s better now but between the generic shortage and then the precursor “shortage”, it was bumpy.

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      God damnit I need to message my doctor. I’ve been trying to remember for like a week.

      Edit: thank you for the reminder, now maybe I won’t run out of meds. Maybe.

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      3 days ago

      If it helps: I asked my pharmacy and they now send me a text asking if I would like to refill the prescription explicitly shortly before it’s out, so the scheduling is (mostly) no longer my problem. Might be worth seeing if they can do that for you. Good luck!

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      Low key I don’t think you should’ve made a kid… Adhd here and I just to end it, all thanks to selfish fucks who had nothing better to do than pass down genes

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        On the other hand, 6 years in the industry and every actually good software engineer seems to have ADHD. I’m sure this is similar in some other careers too. So maybe it’s less of a curse and more of a… Side-step from the norm?

        There’s this innate curiosity and tendency to learn a lot more than strictly necessary, that seems to come with ADHD.

        So I’ll have trouble doing the dishes, but it also seems that sometimes I can solve multiple difficult problems in one sitting, essentially do a week worth of work in one night.

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        ADHD is not a curse. Hell, it’s probably not even a bad thing it’s just that the world has been built for neuro”typical” people and, even though it doesn’t work for them either, it makes you feel bad.

        You aren’t broken. All this other bullshit, on the other hand…

      • rat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        Ooh, eugenics! Yk, I think there some German guys with red armbands who’d agree with you. And some American guys with red hats.