Lady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.com to Memes@sopuli.xyz · 26 days agoPretty but pointlessreddthat.comimagemessage-square89fedilinkarrow-up1756arrow-down115
arrow-up1741arrow-down1imagePretty but pointlessreddthat.comLady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.com to Memes@sopuli.xyz · 26 days agomessage-square89fedilink
minus-squareAstralPath@lemmy.calinkfedilinkarrow-up44arrow-down8·25 days ago“Do we like this?” That’s the biggest cant-think-for-myself red flag I’ve ever heard.
minus-squaredouglasg14b@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up18·25 days agoI mean, asking for others opinions is a pretty normal and social behavioral thing to do… No? Things I like I find others tend not to, so if I’m making something to appeal to others and not myself, I ask what they like. Ofc this example of a picture hung over a stove is… Asinine, but my point still stands in response to your statement.
minus-squareJackbyDev@programming.devlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·24 days agoYes, asking for people’s thoughts on things is normal. It is not asking for others to think for you. They’re too caught up on the wording.
“Do we like this?”
That’s the biggest cant-think-for-myself red flag I’ve ever heard.
I mean, asking for others opinions is a pretty normal and social behavioral thing to do… No?
Things I like I find others tend not to, so if I’m making something to appeal to others and not myself, I ask what they like.
Ofc this example of a picture hung over a stove is… Asinine, but my point still stands in response to your statement.
Yes, asking for people’s thoughts on things is normal. It is not asking for others to think for you. They’re too caught up on the wording.
You’re being gollumophobic 🚩
blatant venomophobia