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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • … Until you need a job.

    I need a job so yeah, I did angrily send my passport to persona. What can I do? No job means I’ll have to remigrate back, I’ll lose everything I have built here for the past 5 years.

    So I need linkedkn as half the jobs are there now.

    Not that it mattered. I sent out hundreds of job resumes by now, and I had literally a single reply.

    I did get an offer from a company, pay us 10.000 dollars and we will get you a great job, no guarantees though. Thry actually do seem to work, not directly a scam, but what the fuck, why is it that this is how i need to get a job?

    Either way, its fucked and its done. 2 months from now I’ll be living in a different country because I have gotten exactly a single interview in 2 months so far…

    I’m in IT, so that’s fucked, but I’m also on a work permit that requires anyone who wants to hire me to jump through a few hundred hoops, and they may need to wait 2-16 months (!!!) for me to get the required permissions to start. Granted, 16 months is an extremely worst case scenario, BUT IT IS A POSSIBILITY as laid out to me by multiple immigration lawyers by now. I’m highly qualified, I’m very nice in person, respectful and calm, I can build up your entire IT department myself as I’ve worked literally at every position from the lowest to the highest. I have broad knowledge about almost everything IT. I’m willing to take low level jobs if that will get me something.

    Nothing

    So I’m fucked and fuck this world












  • Agreed

    Looking for a job now and a single company so far has has taken 6 hours of my time.

    Two for the initial requirements for applying, the reading their 5 page information, writing a cover letter, etc.

    Then two hours on a screening interview, and the initial interview, though that second one went from 1 hour to 1 hour 45 minutes so it was actually 6 hours 45 minutes

    Then two more hours on a technical interview

    This is where I’m at now, and i still am looking at two more one hour interviews with higher up, then the CEO herself.

    That’ll make over 8 and a half hours IF I get the job.

    If I don’t get the job, man, this was a fucking waste…

    In principle, jobs should be a mutually beneficial relationship. I give them resources, they pay for that but in reality, the balance 100% tipped to their side

    I have to apply for jobs, they dont have to apply for employees

    I have to write cover letters and separate letters to tell them how much i love their company and how badly i really want to work there and how much I’ll sacrifice for them

    They interview me on their turf, their rules. We don’t get to interview the company. Some companies allow us to ask a few questions, but that’s it.

    Shits fucked up





  • Maybe a hundred by now, lost count. My wife has hundreds more than me, and we keep increasing our numbers together, so to speak. God I love my wife and I love my life.

    Wife an I love to regularly go to sex clubs, we have regular partners we play with a lot, and we both give eachother the freedom that if we have an opportunity to have sex while the other isn’t there, take it. We both simply love sex and we’re super open and honest and respectful about our wants, needs, and desires



  • Oh come on

    What is degrading about simply stating facts? I’ve had one partner or two or ten, or a hundred or more… What is the degrading part here?

    I’ve had sex with hundreds of partners and all of them enjoyed it by my knowing, what is degrading about it? One, two, or a bunch of people having fun together is degrading for you?

    My wife has had hundreds of partners too, probably more than I. She is amazing and I respect her to no end. Am I degrading her by saying this? Is it degrading that she likes sex?

    Live and let live, buddy. Don’t judge people, and don’t make such a huge deal about sex, it’s not a religion