Yep i agree. Partly because of that bullying i had changed schools back then. Then a few years later it so happened that this person joined a folks dance group that another person from my new school here was attending and so i went and saw him at that performance. Even then i noticed he was different, although we didn’t talk. So it’s possible he changed even during those years.

Thank you!

At the moment i was definitely more surprised and awkward but after some time i realized i was glad he did that, It brings some much needed closure. As i said, he wasn’t always totally awful, he even defended me a few times when he recognized things went too far. Looking at his life afterwards, the way he got into theater, he seems to have made many changes for the better, don’t know what prompted him.

What surprised me was also the way he spoke, his voice almost had a sort of constant tranquility, like he was at peace and wanted to atone for his behavior. But afaik he wasn’t that much into religion to explain it.

But i was also always more angry at the other two, not him as much. I blame them for the social anxiety that plagued me my whole life.

There are many instances. you’re free to choose one in particular(maybe one specialized in your language or hobby or country) or just go with one of the big ones like mastodon.social. See https://joinmastodon.org/servers

Yes you can subscribe to lemmy communities and new posts will appear in your mastodon feed.

One of my school bullies one day unexpectedly apologized. I had long forgotten about it but we one day met randomly in the city and he suddenly started talking about how he was sorry how he treated me. He genuinely seems to have changed, i was surprised how much he changed for the better actually. But this also goes only for him, there were 2 others and they were much worse.

During Prigos march there were reports the Kremlin were actively calling the few countries they still had some relationship with. So it looked like he was considering escape for a moment.

Could you elaborate a little bit why you like Android notifications more?

It’s mostly a personal interest. Sometimes i think i do that because it’s a sign from my brain because my life is too boring otherwise lol.

I often treat it as people often people treat their journals: its a bit therapeutic because you lay out your thoughts exactly as you remember feeling in the dream.

But i totally get disoriented mornings too.

When I wake up and know that the dream was particularly good I’ll immediately write it down on my phone while it’s still semi fresh in my mind for this reason. Over the years I’ve got quite a collection. Often I’ll read a random one and I’m always impressed and weirded out by what my mind came up with lol

What’s holding you back?

yes i was using the standard web interface. most likely your app hasn’t implemented it yet

How would that even work? afaik lemmy can only see communities. would it show up as a huge stream in one community?

I miss being able to subscribe to a post and get notifications when there are new comments. It was an RES feature.

but you can already do this? i just saved your comment and it showed up on my profile

I’ll sometimes search for an acc I want to follow and they have 5 different accounts with different fedi addresses. I know I want the Mastodon account but often there’s no indication which one is Mastodon, which one is Pixelfed which one lemmy etc in the name.

So you end up with account@mastodon account@pixelfed [email protected] in the best case.

And account@instancename1 account@instancename2 account@instancename3 in the worst case.

And they all have the same icon and belong to the same person

At least for your instance, or for looking one instance at a time, you can see which instances they federate and defederate with by scrolling to the bottom and clicking “instances”

Or go to the url of the form “<instance domain>/instances”