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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I’ll add a caveat.

    Relationships take work. If you’re in a relationship and feeling “meh”, that doesn’t mean the relationship is “meh”. It means one or both of you aren’t putting enough work in for one another.

    Edit: I’m not going to respond to what followed my post here. Just know that when relationships feel perfect, that is a red flag. That indicates someone isn’t speaking up for themselves, or worse, is being manipulative. People don’t fit together like puzzle pieces.

    Disagreements, miscommunications, incongruently overlapped priorities… It’s a part of being a team with another individual. If you’re not ready for bumps in the road, stick to porn.