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Cake day: October 3rd, 2024

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  • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.worksOPtocats@lemmy.worldchill stray
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    7 days ago

    yeah haha, he’s still a stray and is just following in cheaters footsteps (another stray I posted before) in order to get treats. He’s still very skiddish and it was totally my fault to try to tell him to move by touching his side with the back of my hand

    he has promise of being domesticated though 🫡



  • no shame in asking!

    tbh I used to be the opposite of you. 2 men together was just kinda weird. not in a “that’s wrong you’re going to hell!!! 😡😡” kinda way, moreso just something in my brain thought it was kinda off-putting about it. I was raised by a really homophobic mom and grandparents as well as toxic discords that didn’t properly portray what being gay is like, that 100% had something to do with it.

    however, I found women snuggling together so cute and wholesome, like the best thing in the world. Like wholeheartedly cannot understand how anybody would be against it. I felt like really inferior as if never be half of worth to have an experience of anything like that.

    Over time as I got more experience with gay men my view kinda shifted and I think it’s really wholesome and I am really happy that people can be with who they want to be and it’s really sweet.

    however… I am now a woman… and attracted to women… so that explains that

    also my dad is gay and was his whole life.