Without more information: by knowing yourself. Understand your needs and then you can search for the roots of them.

Oh, I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have done that.

I didn’t read everything to be fair but you do not only have destination IP and Port but also source IP and port in which case they’re separate connections even if the source IP might be the same.

And that’s only the IP connection side, there’s also a lot more to it there could be authentication and stuff which makes it also more unique.

Especially the ‘wait, we can mine that asteroid’ part and then the running away on failure.

If it’s common knowledge, asking provocatively, how could you let this happen?

(rhetorical, too, because divide & conquer worked really well)

Ah, I see the word perplexing seems to hold different meanings here (not native speaker, but I just looked it up and what I meant is one of the meanings).

Just for clarification, it’s not a question for me as to why but just like the ‘yeah, I know, here we go’ kind of situation that is quite hopeless, as in the ending the referenced movie ‘don’t look up’ points to.

The funny thing is, as an atheist trying to live a reasonable life I see far less issues for me than a lot of so called religious people.

It’s perplexing to see that in the meantime first world countries are busy with the AI race and accelerating environmental issues.

‘don’t look up!’

Magnus

OK now this could explain the issues I’ve been having, like unexpected dying.

(using xylitol for a few years now and the root cause has not been found)

Haha, touche I think. I’m confused as always (and my lemmy client even added to this now since the comment was too deep… Lol).

Yeah, same boat here with the difference is the last attempt burned me further and meatspace… Well, you know how it goes when leaving the house alone is too much of a strain nevermind meeting and interacting with people.

Achtung!

Not unlikable, that’s important. You be yourself. Masking will put a heavy strain on you, find your people.

We don’t get much external positive reinforcement so the negative tends to stick and impact our self esteem, it’s a negative loop.

For me and some others it’s obvious, for you it’s not. I got that and apologized to op.

Yeah OK we’re all autists. We’ll done.

Also possible. That’s why I am hoping for a better, sustainable development.

Talking from a European perspective, worldwide view here.

We know AI programming is not viable on the professional field. Some companies are not up to date with that yet though.

So I hope when the AI bubble ends in one way or another you will be needed and wanted.

Speaking on a personal level, if you’re into computers and not just there for the money you’ve got an advantage because those only there for the money are often a bit lacking for the job.

Just saw your other answer. I think security and networking is always a hot topic and open. Currently working in exactly those fields. Ama if you wish.

Was going to say this, I’m a professional too beginning without formal training (whatever exactly thst covers). Did some certificates and stuff later on which may or may not still be relevant (due to specific fields).

That didn’t happen.

And if it did, it wasn’t that bad.

And if it was, that’s not a big deal.

And if it is, that’s not my fault.

And if it was, I didn’t mean it.

And if I did, you deserved it.

Hey, thanks for continuing. I have to say, you’re possibly right with overthinking. That’s what we do. And hence, we often jump around to the point of getting lost in our own line of thinking - the latter being exactly what happened.

I am now trying to read through the fragments and have a very hard time following myself. If we were sitting together it might be easier, doing this asynchronous is hard work. So thanks for putting up with that and your effort.

Let me do some jumping around mobile and desktop and see of I can follow up.

Follow up edit:

OK I found where we disconnected. So I answered your op question basically and included autism and thought of that as self contained answer as if it was clear.

So it’s kind of meta and apologies for that, it is convoluted. Having deep(er) knowledge of something one tends to miss out explanation of these things, which adds to the issue.

So the connection to autism with misunderstandings lies in autism itself, this literally are the social difficulties which are documented in medical papers.

Now, what might throw you off is the expected ‘that happens to everyone’…and while that is true it’s one of the discussions we have regularly. It’s just on a totally different level.

Its complicated. But it is there, and I didn’t want to hijack your topic or cause bother.

And while this explanation might likely be ‘eh’ for you, don’t worry, hopefully you’ll never have to worry much about it in your life and that’s perfectly fine.

Thanks (honestly) for clearing that up.

See - that’s the issue. There is this inherent obvious connection on the op topic that you can’t see. And that’s fine, you’re NT. However I am not, hence you’re saying I am an asshole for not elaborating a point you can not understand. It’s literally beyond NT understanding.

As is many understanding of yours to ND. And when trying to go into this, I, or rather, we are the assholes. So of course we resign. There is this gap in understanding that I even linked and it’s still not enough.

So, there you go. I am sure it will not or never be enough. It’s just that on the opposite side you as a standin for NT are behaving like assholes, but both sides are literally incapable of getting some points across.

As said, still thanks for your answer. Be kind to people, you might not understand them. (unrelated to me)

Edit oh by the way: weird is the perfect notice of autism by NT. Just FYI