“Let’s talk about something nice instead!” (:

Finish him.

I can’t leave.

I have a child with an abusive, vindictive ex-spouse. Regardless of me having sole custody, I would still need to get both the court’s permission and his permission just to move out of state, so god knows I will not be able to get out of the country.

I’m at a loss. I will not leave without my kid.

I swear I’ve seen concept art once upon a time… was it Disney? But I remember it looking so cute!

I’d love an animated “Cats” movie! It’d be soooo cute!!

I have a body that no clothes will fit. A very dramatic hourglass shape. If I see something cute, it definitely will not fit me.

Nothing. Fucking. Fits.

The worst part is the bras. The fucking bras!!! Why are US bra sizes so fucked?? I literally only wear ill-fitting sports bras now!!! Otherwise my tits are squeezed or wire stabs me or every other pain.

I also have stupid sensitive skin & hypohydrosis, so rashes & heat exhaustion are things I need to think about when getting dressed.

person gives helpful instructions on how to clear an insect infestation

“lol bossy”

🤡

He has a chameleon??? Holy shit, anyone who can keep those goobers alive & healthy are fukkin rad!!

Fan too big. ):

Tbf, I did not build this. A friend did and then sold it to me for a good price! Can’t complain. It’s run pretty good for 6+ years. Though I guess I have no point of comparison.

Amber Isle!

Cute dinosaur shopkeeper sim with decorating & friendship mechanics.

I’m so sorry.

But also: welcome!

Not a tech person. I’m a seamstress/tailor who will make you feel like the smartest person in the room when I ask questions about computers. Never knew so much about internet privacy before Lemmy, either. It’s been eye-opening to learn about tech-stuff on Lemmy!

I left R×ddit out of spite, then found out youtubers made videos reading out my posts and said goodbye to it forever. It became a free content farm ripe for mishandling, astroturfing, and paid propaganda.

My stubborn ass will learn something beyond simple navigation because I’m always wanting to skirt injustice and do what little I can to not support rampant capitalism (I have no money!)

I mean… I learned Blender. I’m capable of pretty much everything!

Because they don’t care about “life”.

They care about punishing people.

Ripping me out of my forced hyperfocus absolutely infuriates me. I worked very very very very very very hard to get into a mindset that will allow me to work, and it is so fragile… please do not interrupt if I ask you not to.

Aye, that’s the one.

It’s just worded very silly.

Yeah, more of an auadhd.

Fun fact: some tuxedo cats actually have prominent Siamese genetics! Siamese cats are known for being very very vocal.

Thank you.

A big part of why I have severe anxiety to this day is because I was exposed to traumatic things far too young/quickly. I was pushed into situations where I was not ready or emotionally/mentally equipped to handle. Constantly.

Exposure is only good if a person is ready for it. Desensitization is only helpful when you are equipped to handle such a thing.

I had an ex who would say that we were doing one thing, then take me to do something completely different, then boast that he was “helping me”, which only heightened my fears in the end. As a foil to that, I had an ex after that who was encouraging and supportive and kind, and gently led me into the same situations, where I knew what I was getting into. Guess how which one had me overcoming my fears?

Exposure works best if you are prepared for the exposure and have the support you need in those kind of situations.

I am always thankful for trigger warnings.

The formalizer is great when I don’t want to think too hard to try and be polite (I can be pretty blunt).

The chef is great, too! I have trouble eating good things and coming up with meal plans.

The magic to-do list os my favorite. Breaks everything down into simple, manageable steps! Love it so much!