He/Him - Anarchist

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Cake day: July 16th, 2023

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  • Yeah. I hate it so much. 2 things i learned that help a little is to make the task as tiny as possible. Have to do dishes? What if i just wash 1 glass and make myself a chocolate milk? Or if i wash just this bowl and get some peanuts? And then when i am washing just that one thing, it is soooo much easier to wash the rest.

    The other one is breaking my project down into tiny tasks. This one might be more for my autism, but having a list of what to do helps me so much. Things feel like gigantic tasks and i won’t know where to start. But if i figure out what needs to be done, it makes it a lot easier.

    But then making a list is hard because of my adhd… so… 🤷















  • Love it! I was recently thinking about the stuff a lot. Yesterday me and my wife were watching our first marvel movie together and she had sooooo much knowledge of the characters and universe. She said she was always so self conscious of that because she was always taught its a “guy thing” to love comic books and superheros. She said she knows i don’t care about that but she was still worried i would think she is to “boyish”. I said i love how much she knows and i want her to be herself and tell me all about it. Not whatever gender role she was told to act like. She grew up in a very conservative right wing family. She is a hardcore leftist nowadays and learning to stand up for herself and i couldn’t be prouder of her.

    This plays such a bigger role in our daily lives than we think and its important to talk about.