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Cake day: August 20th, 2023

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  • I know but then it’s so easy to give up, and even if you don’t, the next time something slightly disturbs the balance, such as it being Thursday, you need to achieve a monumental life changing effort again just to do the exact same thing you did for months…? And the crazy thing is that even experts on the subject don’t seem to understand going “it’ll get easier just keep at it” my sister in Christmas, I am fourty freaking years old I don’t think I’ll suddenly be able to not randomly forget brushing my teeth







  • I don’t get how nothing changed for you? Maybe you’re next if a hot new son comes along? Anyway, ofc she shouldn’t demand that but it’s totally understandable when you’ve been betrayed by your family. Really, go to her. She doesn’t choose, but your dad is a major asshole that isn’t honest with his closest people. It’s not good for you to absorb that kind of life. It will punish you your entire life. Yeah. I’m giving you my opinion. You don’t need to do what your mom says, but if you don’t take care of her now she could be ruined forever. I don’t know you, but I know that you deserve a better role model than someone that isn’t man enough to admit he likes a younger girl. Also probably get you therapy. It is more important now than ever probably, and make sure your mom does too if she doesn’t flip back. I’m not saying don’t talk to dad anymore, but jesus christ he’s got a new kid to be with, and you just got a job. I don’t know your age but not stepping up now could be much more devastating than maturing too early. Just trust. People with no respect for themselves will never respect you and vice versa. You make tour own reality.