Omg wait this is not only an opportunity for me to share one of the YouTube videos I quote the most, but it’s also a legitimately helpful share! 😄

All you gotta do is squish that cat.

Hiiii Gabi 👋

He’s a cryptid lol (I love him)

Did he move to a new company site in Seattle or is he working remote now?

If they gave a cost of living increase for moving and allow him to do remote work, please tell me who you work for 😅

I know if I were moving, my company would offer me the option to go remote, because I’m the top performer on my team. But there’s no way they’d give me a cost of living increase to go remote, they don’t even want me to wfh a couple days a week…

The aggressive scruffing is bothering me too… And at the beginning when the cat is running away, he’s got airplane ears going and he doesn’t look happy.

She refuses to let you get meds? This is extremely controlling behavior which sounds very concerning. You deserve bodily autonomy. If your wife were a man, this would immediately be called abuse.

I agree with the other comments saying to get counseling and not take your meds in secret.

Didn’t ask

Such a wild response lol

You commented on a forum. People reply. That’s… what happens here. The replies are for everyone on the thread, not just you. That’s why it was a comment reply and not a DM.

And like, look at where you are, this is an ADHD community. And someone provided relevant information in response to your comment. Of course someone is going to latch on to some small piece and infodump in response, it’s the ADHD community

Okay wait this one is hilarious 😂 I’m so sorry. Did you have to get unready and run all the way back?

OP, I had a floppy chain like yours, but I fidgeted too hard and broke it 😂 I liked to try to squeeze my finger in between the rubber bands and over time it didn’t like me doing that lol

My favorite is my Ono Roller. It’s metal and has a delightful weight to it. I got the youth size for my small hands lol. I like that it’s completely silent and occupies my entire hand

I also like the Nee Doh squishies. My mini cube is my 2nd favorite fidget at the moment. The ones filled with gel are superior to the ones with white goo. The ones with more varied shape (mushroom/animal) are more likely to make fart noises when squished. (I also have to resist fidgeting too aggressively and breaking these lol. One night the intrusive thoughts won and I was biting a cube while stretching it. It was a really good bite feel, but a bunch of air got in the cube and solidified the goo and now it’s extremely hard and won’t squish unless you sit on it and warm it up for half an hour first lmao 😂)

Oooh I want one 🤩

It’s the same with calico cats as well from what I understand, almost all are female.

Yep, to get calico coloring, cats must have two X chromosomes, so they will be female. If a male calico is born, it will be XXY. So that’s a rare mutation to encounter, and those cats are always sterile too, so they’re not passing along their mutation to any kittens either.

Ooooh yeah it is a dog. I thought they weren’t including the cat who is on the bed but not cuddling 😂

For my in-office keyboard I have Gazzew Boba U4 silent tactile switches. I’m very happy with them. I saw some advice that said not to lube them, which I gladly took to save myself the effort lol. I’ve been using them at work for 2.5 years now. And my coworker who (politely) complained about my keyboard being too loud before has not complained about this one 🙂

I use them on a Keychron K-series keyboard that originally came with brown switches. I did also upgrade the stabilizers on this one, my space bar was too loud.

I will say that I prefer my Keychron Q5 that I have at home. It was more expensive than the K-series, but it has better build quality. I haven’t had to do any mods (the stabilizers it shipped with haven’t bothered me) and I prefer the metal body of the keyboard.

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Yeah I was recently cat sitting for friends who have two normal litter boxes and two Litter Robots. The Litter Robots weren’t functioning correctly and they didn’t know why yet so they were basically just normal litter boxes at the time, but gigantic lol.

Anyway I wasn’t very impressed if both their very expensive automated litter boxes weren’t working.

So I haven’t been left with a great impression of Litter Robot’s reliability.

Is this an overlook off the BR parkway?

Gotta tuck the snoot

Def bring it up with the vet. When my cat started going outside of the box, it was because she had a nasty kidney infection.

Edit: also “randomly when I step away,” do you mean if you’re travelling? She might be stressed because she misses you and she’s lonely.

Our cat doesn’t respond to catnip but she does respond to silvervine!

I don’t think it’s the classic catnip response (which I assume is because of her genes) but she gets more playful and her pupils enlarge… for a few minutes and then she just wants to take a nap 😂

And from me please give her a lil forehead scritch, thanks