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faultypidgeon@programming.dev to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 7 months ago

It's your first date and she/he asks what type of music you like. What's the guilty pleasure you won't tell her/him about?

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It's your first date and she/he asks what type of music you like. What's the guilty pleasure you won't tell her/him about?

faultypidgeon@programming.dev to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 7 months ago
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  • Geometrinen_Gepardi@sopuli.xyz
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    Because “they” refers to multiple people?

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      It doesn’t though. They has been used for singular without knowing the gender for a long time.

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        Like at least since English has been a language.

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      Singular “they” actually predates singular “you”.

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      My friend forgot their umbrella at the office.

      They nervously answered the phone.

      They’re a lazy motherfucker.

      I gave my friend a hug and wished them a speedy recovery.

      Any of those sound unusual, or like they’re referring to more than one person?

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      I was taught this very aggressively in school, but it turns out that it’s just not true and there’s a long history of singular they.

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