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DopamineDevourment@lemmy.world to ADHD@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 years ago

I always end up anxious about if people will like what I’m saying.

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I always end up anxious about if people will like what I’m saying.

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DopamineDevourment@lemmy.world to ADHD@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 years ago
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  • TragicNotCute@lemmy.world
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    Type it all out and…press cancel.

    • DopamineDevourment@lemmy.worldOP
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      Yea, I do this far too often.

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        All the freaking time. Like my brain is like “hey! I’m going to talk! I like talking!” And then suddenly turns on itself and is all “what where you thinking dumbass!? You are just going to make an idiot of yourself again” So then I delete my comment and scroll on. Trying to be better on lemmy so here is my comment.

        • DopamineDevourment@lemmy.worldOP
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          You did well, thank you for contributing.

  • MrPoopyButthole@lemmy.worldM
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    Thats the cool thing about lemmy. We upvote anything. A can of beans is on the all time top posts.

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      I’m doing my part

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      Man I love this platform

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    I experience less rejection sensitivity since I’m on Lemmy/Kbin. I don’t know why, exactly, but one reason may be the lack of karma. And some Lemmy instances don’t even have downvote system.

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      lack of karma

      kbin does have karma though, yours is at 1505 right now.

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        But the fact that it’s hidden inside the profile page, instead of appearing at the username like on Reddit, makes it almost invisible.

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    Right now, Lemmy is much more supportive than Reddit, hopefully we’ll stay that way. We’re just happy to have anyone posting so we can comment and upvote

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    Really, this is what you went with?

    jk, well done. I’m totally not placating you! It’s really good!

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    I downvoted you just to feed that anxiety.

    good meme, though.

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    I had the same worry but my first post on Lemmy got more traction than I thought it would! Just post about beans and you’re golden …

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    Add to this wanting to do just about anything putting yourself out there, amirite? 😅

    Edit: idk about you but somehow comments seem way easier for me to put out there.

    • DopamineDevourment@lemmy.worldOP
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      The problem with commenting for me is that I have no idea what to say most of the time. I’m always afraid I’ll say something irrelevant or offensive.

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        You’re doing great.

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    Man that post SUCKS!

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    Man, I get this all the time, it sucks lol.

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