• Comrade_Squid@lemmy.ml
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        5 hours ago

        I like to think not, I just wouldn’t want to treat previous partners as a notch on the bed post.

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      8 hours ago

      Oh come on

      What is degrading about simply stating facts? I’ve had one partner or two or ten, or a hundred or more… What is the degrading part here?

      I’ve had sex with hundreds of partners and all of them enjoyed it by my knowing, what is degrading about it? One, two, or a bunch of people having fun together is degrading for you?

      My wife has had hundreds of partners too, probably more than I. She is amazing and I respect her to no end. Am I degrading her by saying this? Is it degrading that she likes sex?

      Live and let live, buddy. Don’t judge people, and don’t make such a huge deal about sex, it’s not a religion

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        8 hours ago

        Idk just feels like a degrading thing to do, I used to brag as a younger man but I don’t feel it is appropriate now and looking back don’t feel it was appropriate then.

        You do you, feel however you feel about it, personally, I find it as degrading.