What is everyone else using for VPN solutions and what are the trade offs?

I want a VPN to access all my personal devices and use services like Syncthing. I use it on my phone so it can’t use ungodly amounts of idle data.

I looked at Netbird but found the idle data usage almost 1GB per few days using JetBird with Lazy connections. I tried the default app but it makes me SSO login every day or two, it wouldn’t stay connected, and it still used a reasonable amount of idle data.

I looked at Tailscale but I’m not going to lock access to all my devices behind a Google account login or some other third party service login for no reason. It seems like hosting my own auth server is too much additional risk as well. I tried self hosting headscale which worked well except that I have no decent front end to easily add devices. I have to log into a terminal, then execute docker commands which was a huge pain in the ass. I didn’t even touch on any of the firewalling or routing that can be done because it was so much more complex in headscale then in a web interface. I tried hosting two or three headscale front ends but couldn’t get one working that supported most of the available feature set. Usually I was given generic connection errors with no clear way to diagnose or clear troubleshooting steps so after a few hours I moved on.

  • SayCyberOnceMore@feddit.uk
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    1 hour ago

    I have pfSense as my firewall, running OpenVPN and I just connect when I need to.

    Phone’s running trackercontrol all the time to block stuff and I’ve disabled most of google on it, so I’m not too concerned whilst I’m out and about… most apps I use are local-data anyway, ie CoMaps not google maps, etc… so I’m using ~1GB/month.

    Syncthing only syncs on known wifi, so when I’m home it updates with a NAS and 2 laptops (and photos with 2 tablets), so there’s always something it’s syncing with.

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    6 hours ago

    I’m using headscale with headplane as the UI, looks like tailscale, is feature complete (at least it says so on their GitHub readme). Headplane even integrates with an external OIDC provider (I self-host Keycloak for centralized identity management across my services).

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    22 hours ago

    I just use wireguard, no there is no simple GUI or anything like that. I also run it bare metal no docker.

    It currently sits on a pi zero 2, it has just enough power to use my pihole DNS’s. I plan on moving it to a pi 5 whenever I get around to building my firewall.

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    19 hours ago

    Wireguard and their official Android app. My home router acts as the WG server and it does also the daily dynDNS refresh, so I can pretend having a fixed address.

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    17 hours ago

    I use Wireguard.

    For my phone, I use the “WG Tunnel” app: https://github.com/wgtunnel/android

    It’s nice because it’ll automatically enable/disable it as I move between networks.

    Before that, though I used the official client and I just kept it on 24/7. It’s not like it uses extra data or battery or anything.

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    17 hours ago

    Truenas + wireguard + wg-easy. Quite easy to setup. Official apps that exist on any os you can think of. And stable. Turn it on and forget.

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    21 hours ago

    If you have a public IP just use wire guard. If you don’t have a public IP, rent a cheap VPS and use that as entry point, setting up one wire guard from home to the vps, and the other from your phone to the vps.

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    18 hours ago

    I have a wireguard server on my opnsense router. My phone and my wifes phone is permanently connected, doesnt matter if we are on home wifi or not, we just leave it on. Very basic, very stable.

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      2 hours ago

      I’ve been doing always on for a while. The biggest problem I’m having are reconnection when moving fast. When I’m doing 60 miles an hour through hilly areas, I’m changing cell phone towers every minute. Every time that ip changes it has to renegotiate. It works well if I’m streaming things. But if I’m actually in a meeting or talking to someone directly over IP, the reconnection causes stutters and glitches pretty bad.

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    19 hours ago

    Netbird, it doesn’t use much for data for me, just disable expiry and it’ll stay connected. I would guess the third party app is part of the problem.

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    19 hours ago

    I’m like you and did not want any kind of corporate entity involved in my network if it could be avoided. I settled on Wireguard and rather than deal with management constantly I set up 3 times as many peer configurations as initially needed. When a new device is added I just copy a spare configuration to the device and change the name of the config on the server. Tasker is used to connect the WG tunnel on our phones whenever home wifi is not connected. The open port on the router looks closed to the outside and only responds when the correct key is received so there’s no known way to breach the network.

    Everything from my phone is run through WG and it only uses a tiny amount of additional mobile data. Syncthing adds nothing of consequence except when syncing big files. Battery life is fine even with both WG and Syncthing running.

    Once set up it’s required zero attention or maintenance.

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    21 hours ago

    personally I just use headscale with tailscale clients and mullvad vpn via wireguard on the control server. there’s a bit of systemd magic required to make sure wg-quick starts before headscale does. dns is setup via a pihole device and I just point headscale’s config at that device for dns. it’s a pretty simple setup, but I have no issue doing everything via cli so this works well for me.

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    18 hours ago

    I use Proton’s VPN.

    Issues I’ve observed: timeouts and extra (sometimes excessive) “are you human” verifications, extra step on troubleshootings if a site doesn’t load properly or at all, sites load slower, connection may not even work when it’s morning in Russia and China or if the server is in a country being bombarded (e.g. Iran’s former allies) or possibly also going through some natural disaster, some sites may hardcode your VPN region to your account if you stay in a given IP too much (e.g. Crunchyroll), and some sites block VPN IPs they know about (e.g. Nijimiss.moe, part of the fediverse, and GameFAQS).

  • stratself@lemdro.id
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    21 hours ago

    Headscale is best used with the CLI. If you host a UI it’s only for convenience, and you need to keep track of the Headscale version it supports. The Discord guild can help you debug things.

    Can Tailscale be logged in from multiple credentials? If so try having a few of them instead of one for redundancy. Also maybe look into hosting a reliable and simple IDP like Kanidm for Tailscale.