Spectre@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 20 hours agoDo guys that cat-call women actually think that women like that stuff or is it that they are like bullies who take pleasure on heckling people to annoy them like in middle and high school?message-squaremessage-square56fedilinkarrow-up185arrow-down11file-text
arrow-up184arrow-down1message-squareDo guys that cat-call women actually think that women like that stuff or is it that they are like bullies who take pleasure on heckling people to annoy them like in middle and high school?Spectre@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 20 hours agomessage-square56fedilinkfile-text
minus-squarevelma@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down1·3 hours agoEw no. It’s demeaning and humiliating.
minus-squareeldavi@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·2 hours agoit definitely depends on the person; i’m a man and i thought it was flattering af the few times it happened to me.
minus-squarevelma@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down1·2 hours agoWe shouldn’t be encouraging catcalling ffs Genuine compliments should though.
minus-squareeldavi@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·2 hours agoagreed; i’m definitely an edge case and shared my experience to counter the narrative that it’s ALWAYS bad.
Ew no. It’s demeaning and humiliating.
it definitely depends on the person; i’m a man and i thought it was flattering af the few times it happened to me.
We shouldn’t be encouraging catcalling ffs
Genuine compliments should though.
agreed; i’m definitely an edge case and shared my experience to counter the narrative that it’s ALWAYS bad.