• eldavi@lemmy.ml
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    2 hours ago

    it definitely depends on the person; i’m a man and i thought it was flattering af the few times it happened to me.

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        2 hours ago

        agreed; i’m definitely an edge case and shared my experience to counter the narrative that it’s ALWAYS bad.