It’s great that you found a way to be happy in the situation you were in. Personally, I wouldn’t have been. All the time I don’t have to spend worrying about whether I can feed my kids, or give them a roof over their heads, or worrying about them getting sick and me not being able to afford treatment, I use for things that enrich my life. I spend it with friends and family, I read books, every now and then I travel to a place I haven’t been to before.
If you consider wanting to feed your kids and spend time with family materialistic, fine. But some folks need such shallow materialistic things to be happy. I’m one of them.
It’s great that you found a way to be happy in the situation you were in. Personally, I wouldn’t have been. All the time I don’t have to spend worrying about whether I can feed my kids, or give them a roof over their heads, or worrying about them getting sick and me not being able to afford treatment, I use for things that enrich my life. I spend it with friends and family, I read books, every now and then I travel to a place I haven’t been to before.
If you consider wanting to feed your kids and spend time with family materialistic, fine. But some folks need such shallow materialistic things to be happy. I’m one of them.
That’s 100% not what anyone considers materialistic.
Obviously, feed your children. Feed yourself. That’s not materialism, that’s surviving. I’m not talking about starving as some moral high ground.
I’m talking about people who stress about not going to brunch or having the latest whatever BS phone. That is materialism.
It sounds like you actually agree with “if people can’t afford to do anything, that’s not freedom”, then.