no ofc not. I go on lemmy to fucking relax not take your sarcasm. I had to carry an suicidal SO to the psychward, where the fucking guy told me "I’m only handling pure psychiatric cases (aka so i can prescribe pills), then the day afterward I found her unconscious and I had to carry her to the emergency. Fuck you for defending psychiatrists and all the people that suffered because of them.
Obviously I don’t have your entire story, and I’m prepared for you(edit:wanted to change my wording to be less accusatory) to immediately jump down my throat again for “defending psychatrists” for this. But you do know there’s also a chance that they just… didn’t have any more capacity at the ward at that time to provide the kind of care your SO needed right? Which is horrible, and I’m very sorry that the both of you went through that. But not everything is about psychiatrists wanting to push pills. There’s a very real chance that their capacity to care for in-patient suicide risks was maxed out and that really was all they could handle at that time. Would you rather they have taken her into the ward and not had proper supervision on her and something happened to her in there because they took in too many patients?
The healthcare system is deeply flawed, it sucks, there are bad actors all over it. But that doesn’t mean that everyone who shares a specialty with those bad actors is themselves also a bad actor. You might want to find someone to talk to about that experience, because it seems to have really deeply affected you.
The funniest thing to be is you calling me ableist because what? I don’t agree with you and called you out for LARPing at activism? I’m disabled, I’ve got 3 developmentally disabled kids, all with varying degrees of autism and ADHD, my partner is disabled to the point where even if I was personally physically able to work I couldn’t because she needs me available 24/7 to care for her.
Oh but no, I’m talking about engaging with the system as it exists as a neurodivergent person. That obviously must mean my only goal is to perpetuate the current system of wage slavery. Not to idk maybe help some people like me make it through their day without it taking literally every ounce of energy they have just to exist, let alone keep up with any of the demands of living like rent, food, etc.
I like how rather than engaging with the comment where I apologized for the possibility that I might have unintentionally come off as antagonistic during my first reply to you, you instead decided to go back to a comment you already replied to and just… continue posting through it about how I’m being hurtful and mean.
Maybe you should take a break and find a professional to talk to about all this hon. Or like… take a walk, go pet something fluffy, like… do anything but continue hitting the “Comment” button maybe? Either way, I’m done enabling this. Find someone else to rage at because they disagree with you and then say they’re attacking you when they defend themselves from you calling them an “ableist pos” “stupid cunt” “good slave” and implying that if they were in Rosa Parks’ shoes they’d have moved to the back of the bus just to name a few. Or again, is it okay when you do it because I apparently “attacked you first” when I didn’t even realize I could even have been being antagonistic and even apologized for coming off that way if that was how what I said came off to you.
I hope you can find peace. Because mine’s in the Block button. Have a nice life.
And none of this is my fucking fault. Remember when i said “sorry that happened to you” and tried to find a middle ground and you kept attacking me for no reason?
Kept attacking you? What are you talking about? All I did was ask you what good it does to come into a conversation about the difficulties in getting diagnosed with ADHD and basically just saying “Well maybe we shouldn’t diagnose it like that.” If I came off like I was attacking you, I’m sorry. That wasn’t what I was trying to do there. I was genuinely just confused at what the point was of that comment.
But then the very next thing you did pretty much was to imply that if I was in Rosa Parks’ shoes I’d have moved to the back of the bus. But I guess it’s not attacking people when you’re just “hitting back” huh?
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no ofc not. I go on lemmy to fucking relax not take your sarcasm. I had to carry an suicidal SO to the psychward, where the fucking guy told me "I’m only handling pure psychiatric cases (aka so i can prescribe pills), then the day afterward I found her unconscious and I had to carry her to the emergency. Fuck you for defending psychiatrists and all the people that suffered because of them.
Obviously I don’t have your entire story, and I’m prepared for you(edit:wanted to change my wording to be less accusatory) to immediately jump down my throat again for “defending psychatrists” for this. But you do know there’s also a chance that they just… didn’t have any more capacity at the ward at that time to provide the kind of care your SO needed right? Which is horrible, and I’m very sorry that the both of you went through that. But not everything is about psychiatrists wanting to push pills. There’s a very real chance that their capacity to care for in-patient suicide risks was maxed out and that really was all they could handle at that time. Would you rather they have taken her into the ward and not had proper supervision on her and something happened to her in there because they took in too many patients?
The healthcare system is deeply flawed, it sucks, there are bad actors all over it. But that doesn’t mean that everyone who shares a specialty with those bad actors is themselves also a bad actor. You might want to find someone to talk to about that experience, because it seems to have really deeply affected you.
The funniest thing to be is you calling me ableist because what? I don’t agree with you and called you out for LARPing at activism? I’m disabled, I’ve got 3 developmentally disabled kids, all with varying degrees of autism and ADHD, my partner is disabled to the point where even if I was personally physically able to work I couldn’t because she needs me available 24/7 to care for her.
Oh but no, I’m talking about engaging with the system as it exists as a neurodivergent person. That obviously must mean my only goal is to perpetuate the current system of wage slavery. Not to idk maybe help some people like me make it through their day without it taking literally every ounce of energy they have just to exist, let alone keep up with any of the demands of living like rent, food, etc.
How is it funny? You’re being hurtful and mean and jump on my throat for expressing something I lived through. I’m not launghing. I’m sad
I like how rather than engaging with the comment where I apologized for the possibility that I might have unintentionally come off as antagonistic during my first reply to you, you instead decided to go back to a comment you already replied to and just… continue posting through it about how I’m being hurtful and mean.
Maybe you should take a break and find a professional to talk to about all this hon. Or like… take a walk, go pet something fluffy, like… do anything but continue hitting the “Comment” button maybe? Either way, I’m done enabling this. Find someone else to rage at because they disagree with you and then say they’re attacking you when they defend themselves from you calling them an “ableist pos” “stupid cunt” “good slave” and implying that if they were in Rosa Parks’ shoes they’d have moved to the back of the bus just to name a few. Or again, is it okay when you do it because I apparently “attacked you first” when I didn’t even realize I could even have been being antagonistic and even apologized for coming off that way if that was how what I said came off to you.
I hope you can find peace. Because mine’s in the Block button. Have a nice life.
And none of this is my fucking fault. Remember when i said “sorry that happened to you” and tried to find a middle ground and you kept attacking me for no reason?
Kept attacking you? What are you talking about? All I did was ask you what good it does to come into a conversation about the difficulties in getting diagnosed with ADHD and basically just saying “Well maybe we shouldn’t diagnose it like that.” If I came off like I was attacking you, I’m sorry. That wasn’t what I was trying to do there. I was genuinely just confused at what the point was of that comment.
But then the very next thing you did pretty much was to imply that if I was in Rosa Parks’ shoes I’d have moved to the back of the bus. But I guess it’s not attacking people when you’re just “hitting back” huh?