I not only mean it as in ‘french-kissing your partner’, but also things like ‘kissing someone’s hand out of reverence’ and ‘kissing the kids good night’.

  • 「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」 | (aka: 鳳凰院 凶真 Hououin Kyouma)@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    I’m Chinese American and my entire family of origin are born in China (including me), parents grew up in Taishan and got married via arranged marriage… and… I never saw my parents kiss… like… NEVER

    Their room is open and as a kid, I went to sleep in their room, and like their room door is open I suspect that THEY NEVER HAD SEX except like the two times to create me and my older brother and like they have busy work schedules so I doubt they had time to do it in the day, and at night… well they can’t be fucking when I’m literally sleeping in between them.

    Never even saw them HUG

    seriously, if they didn’t have kids, the US immigration officials would’ve probably suspected marriage fraud or something lmfao

    My parents never really kissed me… I hate that stuff since in my mind, I thought that’s only for romance, but I remember my mom wanted to kiss my cheeks and I was like: “eww saliava” so I refused.

    But I did cuddle with mom often as a kid.

    One of my aunt said I was clingy to my mom lol

    My mom would encourage cuddling.

    I remember when I was a kid, I get tired on the NYC subway, and I rest my head on my mom’s lap and sort of take a nap… so like its sort of cuddling, like I’d just lean very close to mom.

    My mom would hold my hand as a kid when we walked around on the streets.