• Melobol@lemmy.ml
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    14 hours ago

    I believe it depends on the severity of the trauma. And of course our mental strength and if we are on the spectrum or not, have any abnormalities and so on… So many components.
    If you had a single Mom and you only met your dad every weekend that could affect you.
    If you were starved, beaten sold into sexual servitude and then failed by the legal system… I don’t think you can get over that.
    But the first step is to understand how messed up it was and you didn’t deserve it. No child deserves any trauma.