• LavaPlanet@sh.itjust.works
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    9 days ago

    When I was younger I defined myself by the things I liked, and others similarly, you just start to see more depth and wisdom the more years you’re lucky enough to kick around, in this planet, I think. And then you start to see, mostly the stuff people like is just funneled coping mechanisms. I can now tell you what peoples traumas are, by what they like. (lol)

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          9 days ago

          Haha, don’t worry I was also joking!

          I have the same trauma where I claim I can do stuff but end up with too many responsibilities.

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      9 days ago

      I like extremely violent realistically gory video games, firearms (I own several modern rifles and handguns), and Zen Buddhism (meditation and mindfulness). What are my traumas?

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        9 days ago

        I feel like that’s one of those things that, even if you could do it, you shouldn’t. I wasn’t really being serious, so much.

        If you’re sure you want me to attempt to play mind reader, just for funsies, I suppose I could. My trauma is I had to grow up guessing what everyone was gunna do, because none of the adults were even a tiny bit safe, so I got sort of a little bit good at the guessing game, sort of. I’ve never tested it on internet strangers though.

        That said, my dating history would completely oppose previous statements… So maybe I just think I’m a little bit good at something, but really I suck.