• SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      If I may be blunt, I don’t think that’s because your ex is NT. It sounds like your ex is just an abusive asshole. I’m sorry you had to deal with their abuse.

      • 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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        honestly, I’m sorry for traumadumping, took some gummies and I’m not really me.

        from now on I’ll aim to date neurodiverse people instead, we are more fun anyways.

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          No apology necessary, I didn’t even think of it as trauma dumping. Sometimes things just come up and I think that’s okay.

          Enjoy your gummies!

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          aim to date neurodiverse people instead, we are more fun anyways.

          I can offer little better advice. Similarly, find someone whose baggage complements yours, so you can have a matching set.

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      Idk if I’m ND or not because I can’t just info dump for 30 min. I’m just a boring guy that has a lot of interests but not enough knowledge in one specific subject about anything, I need some back and forth to keep conversation alive.

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      This is why I can’t date people who talk too much. They go on a 20 minute monologue and after I try several times to add input, and then they keep going, I get frustrated that I couldn’t say anything, and now the topic is changing so I’ll come off looking like I wasn’t listening to the whole thing so now I’m falling behind on what they’re talking, I catch up and find something relevant to say if they ever stop talking, but they don’t, so I lose interest and start thinking about something else. But after my train of thought hits a few stops and they’re still fucking talking and then I’m internally screaming at them to SHUT THE FUCK UP! And I Invision either my sudden brutal death or theirs.