For me, romantic attraction means I have all of the warm swoony fuzzy feelings for another person, where I want to spend time with them, do things for them, have a deep, emotionally close relationship with them…the only things I don’t want to do with them are sexual things like get naked and touch each other’s genitalia and stuff.

Yeah most of what he says is based on nothing but his own flawed logic. Cass Eris has some scathing videos debunking a lot of his ‘research’ from a cognitive psychologist perspective and they are both densely informative and hilarious.

I’ve used them for a couple years now and love it. They have the full suite, calendar, storage, tasks, document editing the works.

Seconding Fairemail! It’s great, though it was a bit challenging for me to set up as a newb to foss apps. I also use signal, bitwarden, aegis, and newpipe a lot.

Congrats, what a relief! I’ve found a lot of people take their cues from me as far as how I act when telling them. If I drop it in casually they take it casually. If they make it a big deal when I’m trying to be casual about it, then it’s a yellow flag.

Welcome friend! Thank you for sharing. There’s no wrong way to be yourself. I don’t identify as trans, so I can’t speak to that question, but what I can do is encourage you to think about what gender expression means to you. You get to decide if you’re a man who likes to wear skirts, a woman who likes to dress femme on bottom and masc on top, if your body feels right with a vulva or a penis, or any other combination imaginable! Listen to that small voice, follow your joy to yourself.