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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • I can understand not wanting to be referred to as CIS, it’s hardly like everyone associates good connotations with the prefix considering the high tensions that can come in relevant discussions, but to outright ban it is absurd. To be clear,

    Banning use of a word that’s part of our daily vocabulary around the world

    it’s not part of everyone’s daily vocabulary around the world, and that is precisely the problem. I grew up in shithole Oklahoma, and the only time I have ever heard or said the word in-person is when talking with my trans friend, and I literally had to remember what the prefix was last time I was having a discussion involving it. I learned about the word not from someone who was politely explaining to me the difference, but from a very openly hostile person referring to CIS people as “scum” online. That’s a really shitty first impression. I get that it’s not actually an offensive term, but the feelings I was experiencing when I learned the meaning have sure stuck around and I don’t generally enjoy using the term. If, instead, the term was more normalized, it’d just be a normal run-of-the-mill word to me that I wouldn’t have a problem associating with.

    I feel like banning it and calling it a “slur” is literally only problematic for these sorts of reasons and will lead to continued pointless division of something that should just be a basic descriptor. It’s misleading, will associate negative emotions with the word, and will in turn hamper LGBTQ+ acceptance as the phrase is continually thrown around.

    tl;dr Musk is a dumb fucking idiot that is going to harm society.


  • They have a definition, they just won’t tell the users because it’s not a realistic definition and they plan to pull the rug out later on.

    If third-party apps were only 3% of total traffic and reddit was willing to destroy its image and massively increase the viability of its only competitor just before IPO over it, I’m sure they’ll have no problem getting rid of whatever percentage of blind people who can’t see the ads reddit wants to serve anyway.



  • You’re safe from the big bad scary communists on Lemmy.

    Kbin.social doesn’t defederate lemmy.ml, so either way we’re playing by their “don’t say Uyghur genocide because we don’t think it’s real and we will ban you based on that belief” rules if we accidentally stumble into there.

    This is where I would like to see individual-level instance blocking so that it doesn’t show up in the home feed, same as how I can block everything that pops up in a language I don’t speak.

    Edit: Turns out we have that! Just found another thread showing how. On kbin, it’s possible to view entire instances separately, and there’s a “block” button similar to individual magazines/communities/users. To see lemmy.ml, the link would be

    https://kbin.social/d/lemmy.ml

    but replacing the lemmy.ml part with any instance should take people to that instance just the same.