Zulikath
Open minded, non-judgmental, exploring alternatives for living, identity, thinking, and society. Tries to be an attentive and charitable listener, a direct and concise speaker, and easy to converse with. Introverted but not shy. Wary of ideology, probably including yours, but can disagree without anger or hatred, expects the same from others.
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Cake day: November 15th, 2022
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@LadyButterfly
No, but it took a lot of practice to get to where the answer is no. It takes some listening to figure out what information they actually need to make sure you only give them key insights, and more practice knowing how to deliver those insights in a way they feel is humble instead of showoffy.
Just look for feedback during the entire time you’re talking to them, instead of just at the end or when they stop you, and you can start getting better at it. It’s kinda easy to railroad through a thought if you’re not consciously trying to watch or listen, and giving plenty of small breaks for them to give feedback.