

Try explaining how this works to a full sexual on a dating app. You’d think you had shot their animal companion with the given reaction.
I managed to explain this to family members who took it upon themselves to ‘educate’ me on dating.
only one family member got it cuz they are the same. Meanwhile the others gave me odd looks and stares and continued to attempt to lecture me how dating works. Like I get it. You gonna just bang whatever moves cuz ‘nature’. Maybe widen your scope a bit that others are not like you. But also maybe we need to talk about how consent works.



Not getting a mind that doesnt get minds hah yea I understand… however we Demi’s have spent our lives making room for those sitting at full speed at the one side of the spectrum. Sometimes even faced pressured into sexual situations when we weren’t totally on board just cuz someone else was getting upset we aren’t ’playing along’ by the rules all set by them. We understand their urges because we’ve had it rudely shoved in our faces. We’ve had to sit in the background while someone makes up bullshit like ‘men are like this women are like that’ and talk like sex is the one and only goal all people have even if it’s your best friend. Or reducing all complex human problems to ‘you just need to get laid’ bullshit.
It’s the apathetic rudeness I don’t get. Theyve taken all the air in the room for themselves.