Boz (he/him)

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Cake day: June 23rd, 2023

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  • Non-tech person, though I would prefer not to go into detail on a public forum. I do get along well with tech people, and I run into some fairly technical issues while trying to do other things, but I’m rarely interested in technology for its own sake. I will listen to someone talk about what they do, or read an article, and I will always try to read the manual, but I am also the kind of person who’s like, “if I can’t solve this problem on my own in 15 minutes, I am going to call tech support.” (In my defense, if I can’t solve the problem in 15 minutes with the manual, I am not going to manage it on my own without human intervention, and I don’t want to bother my friends and family if I can get someone whose actual job is to ask if the machine is plugged in, and who won’t tease me about it for the next three weeks if it was, in fact, not plugged in. I am always polite with tech support, but I can tell they sometimes think I should have been able to figure it out on my own).

    I’m fine with not really understanding how Lemmy works, since it does work, and it’s easy to find help if I get stuck. I am picking stuff up here and there as I go, which is usually what happens with stuff I use often, but at a certain point it’s just a black box to me.

    ETA: when I say “not going into detail,” I mean about my background. That didn’t come across the first time, lol, sorry about that.




  • Yeah, but unironically, mailing a check is great if you don’t want to install an app or sign a digital “monetize me, Daddy” agreement just to make a one-time payment to a company that already knows your mailing address. I usually pay rent and utilities that way, because I can just drop it through the office mail slot, and I don’t have to pay a processing fee to use their sketchy online payment system. Cheaper for me, probably a good laugh for the staff, and not difficult.




  • The posted content is almost all backed up elsewhere, iirc. My understanding is that the risk is less having a huge amount of content being generated on specific servers than it is having a lot of users concentrated on those servers. Restoring data from backup or migrating communities (from a content perspective, as in, rehosting) is a lot easier than having people locked out, or, worse, losing accounts altogether.



  • I think part of the solution is to normalize the idea that you subscribe to all the communities on a topic you’re interested in, even if they’re small, so wherever something gets posted, you see it. Eventually some of those communities may be closed in favor of the more active ones, but as a subscriber, there’s no opportunity cost.


  • My guess? Sleep deprivation. I’m not a doctor, but I personally have found that sleep debt wrecks my brain chemistry, for up to twice the number of days I got less than 8 hrs of sleep (or whatever my baseline is at that time). Losing at least an hour a night for six nights in a row would definitely make me garbage for at least a day or two, probably more like a week.

    Granted, ADHD is not the only issue I have that for which this is relevant, but even NT people have trouble focusing when they’re really tired, sooo…


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    1 year ago

    Oh dear lord, that is my least favorite thing about pill caddies, lol. Especially when the labels have worn off, and I’m sitting there poking the braille like: “You’d think I would recognize the patterns by now, given that the labels disappeared like, a year ago…”

    … actually, no, that’s my second least favorite thing about pill caddies. My actual least favorite is that mine are not waterproof. Ask me how I know, lol.


  • I think mood disorders can affect sense of time, for one, though it sounds like you have good reasons to wonder about having ADHD.

    But don’t forget, it’s not necessarily “ADHD or what,” it could be “ADHD and what.” Some ADHD treatments are relevant to other conditions, and vice versa, but there are some overlaps that require a different approach from straight ADHD, so it’s best to keep an open mind.



  • Oof. An apology is nice, but a user-friendly experience would be better. I signed up long ago that I didn’t have to give a driver’s license, but did have to give a checking account, and when I changed my name, they said they would change it on my account if I sent a driver’s license, and I think my legal name change paperwork. Which was doable, but I care more about having some semblance of privacy than I do about having my payment information be accurate. I don’t want anyone to have that much information about me unless I am getting something extremely valuable in exchange. I just think of it as having some random woman paying for my eBay purchases. It’s sort of disturbing to think about how long ago all of that was, lol.