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  • One of the themes I’ve seen here is people saying someone said something they didn’t then taking issue with what they heard/inferred.

    I didn’t say they don’t have eminent domain, as an example. I’m saying that the closest thing I’ve seen to their model is eminent domain - and even then, it’s different.

    It’s as if people here are so keen to land a point that they invent one. I’ve been on a variety of fora for decades. The frequency of misrepresentation and zero fucks about making it right is… I’ve never seen it so prevalent. People act like they aren’t talking to people.

    Straight Dope, people cared. Giraffe board (after the switch), people cared. StumbleUpon, Reddit… people cared that they were seen “arguing” in good faith. They curated their reputation by listening and if they fucked up, many (not all) would try to reset and some would apologize.

    I’m not simply describing my experience. I’m describing threads or branches where all I do is read comments.



  • I remain a bit lost on why you think quoting my citation helped, but I have a theory. I see a lot of glib on lemmy. Are your usual sparring partners here that inept or clueless?

    Honest question: are they? I’m still getting the hang of lemmy and so far it seems like a lot of self congratulatory wannabe-edgelord stuff.

    Like it’s puffery with just enough citations for posters to think they’re smart?

    And along the way, no citation is the right citation. I’m not lumping you into all this, I’m wondering if that’s what this is right now.

    I don’t see people having discussions. I see people correcting each other on secondary points and missing the forest for the trees.

    Edit: I didn’t need my citation clarified to me. That you think that’s what you did by quoting it is odd. If you added context, a link to why you think it’s a richer topic, I’m good with it and I enjoy learning.

    But I had read it and did not need it read back to me.

    The parenthetical part that you didn’t address was the key part. Being and staying in good graces is likely key to a seamless transition into the next 70 years. That’s different from eminent domain.


  • I get that you’re having a bit of fun. On a separate branch here, I make a similar point.

    What people argue about is how much of one makes it “x.” They can seldom say it’s not capitalist, socialist or even communist.

    We quibble over which side of a line it lands. And googling this lead to about a 50/50 split between capitalist and socialist.

    I didn’t pull the idea that they’re capitalist out of my ass.

    And all of the side stuff is people completely missing the article. It’s pedantic and cheap intellectual points and so rarely thoughtful or insightful.

    Is lemmy usually this wannabe edgelord?


  • I’m a little lost here. By posting a section of what I linked… are you thinking you’re making a point?

    I read it. I also know that the 70 year thing has only recently meant anything (the rule is slightly older than 70 years). As a practical matter, what you extracted is what makes sense.

    Some will make more note of the parenthetical: “although the legal procedures for title renewal have not yet been legislated.”

    That can also mean, stay in our good graces and things can go smoothly. In most other countries that specific concern isn’t a thing.

    Officially owning the land and needing to re-authorize is different from eminent domain.




  • If you don’t like them being called capitalist, then your quarrel is with a whole heap of people (and academics).

    The question, like I alluded to earlier, isn’t whether they are capitalist, but a question of how much. And many, after careful study, have determined them to be capitalist.

    Those determinations are based on measurable things and philosophy (somewhat).

    Also: you are clearly not my original intended audience. In the referenced thread I was getting low-effort, glib comments that snowballed upvotes.

    Not unlike the person who deemed me to be a republican. It’s easy to look at my post history.

    I’m not a republican. But glib is easy. And glib, low-effort posters were the primary intended audience. Know-it-alls.





  • Did you read the article before posting?

    There are descriptions of embittered and/or depressed youth. They are not describing young people so well cared for (by the state) that they are opting out.

    And older family will eventually perish or cease to have the means. Something must take the place to ensure production at certain levels.

    Also: fewer hours per job, with an unchanging workload would lead to more jobs. Not fewer. Unless automation, computing or improved engineering lower the overall effort.

    Edit to add one more point: China is Capitalist. The land use thing is communist, but fundamentally they went capitalist decades ago. The notion that they’re doling out buckets of money to people mystifies me (building unnecessary infrastructure is a job).

    If someone has a source or refutation, I’ll click and read, but until then I’ll run with what I find.




  • You need to Google “sea lion troll.”

    You’re not using the term correctly. Or keep doing it wrong, up to you.

    I understand that you’ve answered that you get to decide if a person is worthy of respect or dignity or decency. I find it highly ironic since you seem to exist on a part of the spectrum that would want those things for (almost?) everyone. That may not be true, but you seem inclined to push socialist ideas. I’m very open to that, personally. Many Americans are; the culture wars are used to distract and divide and it works.

    If I’ve persisted in my question on why you become knee-jerk incivil, it’s because the answers so far have landed as “because.” Your most recent response hits more authentically and I appreciate it. I’ve sparred with trolls. I’ve sparred with those who genuinely disagree for good (and bad) reasons. Authentic, mature conversation appeals to me.

    Dropping to name calling (emojis) based on the first reply on a thread lowers discourse. I’ll stop here. I just wish that shit didn’t happen so much.

    I’m not your opponent but you sure set out that way when you correctly determined I’m in and from the US. The combativeness was not deserved, it was off-putting and I am much less likely to want to engage. Shrug.


  • I’m not jumping in to start fights. I jump in to ask why you’re doing it.

    There’s a difference. Clown faces (a pattern, not an instance), vomit emoji… all that is is you doing something for your feels and to feel better than. They do exactly zero for anything a normal, mature peraon would hope to generate.

    You say you want meaningful exchange and you doggedly defend yourself as you bring the discourse down to single emoji and knee-jerk judgments.

    You’re creating an unhelpful dynamic. Being likeable helps. Being right is “logically” enough. For persuasion, it is a distant second on a good day.

    Being more likeable and less glib can help. Or, You’re not here to help. You’re here to feel better than. Your choice and you get to choose, but be consistent. If it’s the later, don’t criticize it in others, please.

    Let’s go one further and I’ll ask other than when I told you themat you required evidence and you were being a hypocrite, when did I demand evidence over and over? Or do you not know what sealioning is?

    I’m not demanding evidence. I’m asking why you’re so darn incivil to so many people. You look like an unsympathetic Don Quixote and it helps none of your points.

    And if you’re not here to persuade, why post so many of a specific kind of article.

    Again. I don’t follow you around. I’m in certain communities for a reason. And then you shit all over them.

    It’s daft, touched-in-the-head kind of behavior.


  • Ah. The source of your anger.

    The local Overton window shifted. You’d found a bubble you liked and now it’s different and more perspectives are flooding in. Not all perspectives are informed, but you are being credibly challenged now.

    The big fish in a small pond finds itself in a different body of water.

    I’m not insulting people until very recently and it’s only you. You cast a wide net with your anger and it’s helping no one. And it hurts your cause.

    I never said you sealion me. Not once. You keep seeing things as said that aren’t. And then you complain about reading comprehension of your sparring partners.

    It’s shameful. And I’m not using that lightly. You act shamefully. It’s fucking embarrassing the way you’re trying to advance ideas by insulting people.

    Other people are here. Adapt.

    If we need to have a thread about maladaptive rhetoric so you cam deem my discussion on topic I’ll point out that posting a single clown emoji or vomit one is not topical, either. It only further lowers discourse and makes you into an easily discarded clown.

    And I doubt you want that.