• ChexMax@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago
    1. But it feels really weird that someone I slept with hundreds of times, often in sessions of 40 minutes to two hours would count the same towards that number as someone who I slept with once for 15 minutes.

    Of the 12, 4 were a single time, 1 was a few times and the rest were over a year of sleeping together, usually 2 or 3.

    For what it’s worth the sex was only physically pleasurable in the long term deals for me.