No it was not easy. Literally no step of the process was even remotely pointed in the same direction as easy. You observing me finally finish a task does not mean it was ever, is currently, or necessarily will be in the future, easy.
And if it is easy in the future? That’s my personal win, not your right to dismiss my past hard work that got me here.
Absolutely, it’s like a quadriplegic person working horribly hard for years trying to get their toe to wiggle, and when they finally do wiggle their toe an able-bodied person tells them “see how easy that was?” -NO- just because it’s easy for you to wiggle your toe doesn’t mean it’s easy for everyone to wiggle their toe. The problem with adhd is that our disability is invisible.
Man, I wish to fuck is was “invisible” —instead of screaming loudly from every pore and action, that I alone am the odd one out and it’s only a matter of time before I confirm that hunch for those within earshot. 🥹😬🤷🏼♂️