cross-posted from: https://linux.community/post/4931735
my father was a university professor and an expert in his field, writing and publishing.
I’m not happy with my job and I’m deciding if I should keep it or study a bachelor, meaning less money for at least 3 years, working part time, relocating… for an uncertain future.
I explained my fears and the situation to my father thoroughly. This once brilliant person capable of giving me several points of view about several topics pasted my questions to an AI engine and sent me its answers, it’s like he didn’t even try to answer the questions himself. wtf?
It’s sad and scary: a person I once could confide in, ask for guidance is now… disappearing? It’s like he disregarded the emotional component completely.
He is now 78 years old. Am I being unrealistic?
And the AI answer? gets several things wrong and doesn’t tell me anything new but holy shit, the way the answer is phrased (my personal opinion, what I think is…), no wonder so many seniors believe they’re talking to an actual human, which is scary on so many levels, because the engine hallucinated several false facts and presented them so neatly packaged, seniors take them as correct fact.
how old are you? you shouldn’t be depending on your father if he is 78. he should be depending on you.
i really do not understand people who are parent dependent beyond the age of say 24… seriously, grow up and learn to self-actualize.
people get old. people get sick. people get ill. people die. you don’t have a choice in the matter. it’s your job to make sure they get the care and resources they need. it’s time for you to go look up care facilities for your dad, get power of attorney, and start managing his affairs for him.