Do you use the word “trans” when talking about nonbinary people?

      • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Jeez, I got so lucky. After giving birth mine went back down to IBTC levels, I can’t imagine living with big 'uns :-/

        How is the flat chested life treating you?

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          sometimes I wonder if I’ll miss them someday but then I saw an ad the other day for bras that was like our bras fit all shapes!

          • too small on top
          • too small on the bottom
          • too big on the sides
          • flat
          • pointy
          • Long
          • lumpy
          • point down
          • point up
          • point out
          • point in different directions

          and for only $80 per bra!

          I’m a little grateful they’re gone after seeing that.

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            Must suck to need special bras :-/ I think my budget is about 20€ per year for that.

            Mostly though, I was wondering if you fall over backwards due to unexpected weight distribution or anything.

            Also, are your nipples ok, sensation-wise?

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              2 days ago

              worse oversensitivity actually I think I need to try the TENS on them and see what happens. I have a neuropathic toe I’ve been meaning to do too.

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                Oh no, my spouse has problems with oversensitive nipples and it’s frustrating for both of us … fingers crossed for some respite if the TENS thingy works for you

    • SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml
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      2 days ago

      You might not have medically transitioned, but surely you socially transitioned in some way. Changed your name and/or pronouns? Altered the way you dress, perhaps?