TractorDuffy@lemmy.world to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · 3 days agoIs nonbinary "trans" ?message-squaremessage-square49fedilinkarrow-up147arrow-down15file-text
arrow-up142arrow-down1message-squareIs nonbinary "trans" ?TractorDuffy@lemmy.world to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · 3 days agomessage-square49fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareSharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up3·2 days agoYup, that describes me - AFAB, androgynous enough that when I stopped binary gender presentation I started getting kicked out if women’s toilets. I wouldn’t call myself trans because I’ve put in no effort (just stopped doing things), and to do so would feel like stolen valour. I do feel like in order to claim an identity one should either fit in that general area, or put in some effort towards it.
Yup, that describes me - AFAB, androgynous enough that when I stopped binary gender presentation I started getting kicked out if women’s toilets.
I wouldn’t call myself trans because I’ve put in no effort (just stopped doing things), and to do so would feel like stolen valour.
I do feel like in order to claim an identity one should either fit in that general area, or put in some effort towards it.