Like there is never comments that even attempts to be like: “Okay here’s what you can do to try to mend the relationship…”

I feel like there’s a conspiracy that the internet is trying to break up as many relationships (and by “relationship” I don’t just mean romance) as possible so people are more isolated and therefore those who rule the world can more easily solidify their control…

    • ramble81@lemmy.zip
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      2 days ago

      Yeah it’s crazy some of the stories I’ve seen about how a guy doesn’t consider his step kids his own even though he’s raised them since birth. Or find out that the kid wasn’t his due to a mix up of infidelity. Or says that he could never love an adopted child “because it’s not his blood running through their veins”.

      Im floored too that quite a few guys think this way, and I’ve heard it from their mouths. I’m very much “blood does not a family make”. But these people think you have to have some chromosomal relation to feel a bond.

      • Beemo Dachboden@feddit.orgDeutsch
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        2 days ago

        Thanks for the nice reply.

        I am sorry I worded my comment so harshly, it was not my finest moment.
        I was agitated from another thing in my life and lashed out randomly, I am sorry.

        I had since deleted it and hoped it was never seen.

        I am very much with you on the topic at hand, blood does not necessarily make great families and great families can be made without blood relations.