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    3 days ago

    Maybe tell her ? If you don’t communicate they won’t be able to just guess

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      3 days ago

      I mean yes, definitely, it’s a topic I want to broach. But since I’m not even sure myself yet on my exact feelings or wishes I find it harder to open a gentle, full discussion - especially when it may be around adjusting some fundamental relationship assumptions.

      But I definitely didn’t want to make it sound like a one-sided fault, as these things rarely are.

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        You have a nice attitude towards our and that’s great ! Hope you’ll soon find a way to communicate this to them in a gentle way