Same. So many times I’ve heard, “you’re too open” or similar. And if I think to much and mask then, “you’re too quiet” or similar. I never know how unmasked and open to be on dates. Just started seriously trying to date again, and it’s so hard. Wish there was an easier way to find people who are ND or ND accepting.
Yeah, same. When I’ve been able to find them. I just have a hard time meeting people. Apps suck, I don’t drink a lot so bars aren’t my thing, and I’m not super into kink. Too old for school, and I work remotely. Seems like that’s where most people I know tend to meet.
Same. So many times I’ve heard, “you’re too open” or similar. And if I think to much and mask then, “you’re too quiet” or similar. I never know how unmasked and open to be on dates. Just started seriously trying to date again, and it’s so hard. Wish there was an easier way to find people who are ND or ND accepting.
Ok, so.
The last 5 women I went on dates with have been neurodivergent. I matched with two NTs, and you know what? The NDs understand how to connect.
Every single ND woman I’ve dated in the past few months could tell when I put on a mask, and reminded me she was safe.
And you know what? I still overwhelmed two of them. But the others? They were unphased.
Yeah, same. When I’ve been able to find them. I just have a hard time meeting people. Apps suck, I don’t drink a lot so bars aren’t my thing, and I’m not super into kink. Too old for school, and I work remotely. Seems like that’s where most people I know tend to meet.