Build what you want to see. You’ll find that there is far less hand-holding here on Lemmy and the fediverse. If there is content you want to see, then you need to be willing to help post and show. You’re doing a good job here by posting, but be the change you want to see.

If there is a community you want, help kickstart it by posting regularly and driving discussion, evangelizing it.

As for uncensored, you may have to go to the less-federated servers, as most of the content has been defederated, usually with good reason.

PieFed is the alternative for the alternative

The primary reason to use Lemmey is decentralization and avoidance of Reddit enshitification. Lot of Lemmey blocks shit show lemmey nodes though I am sure they exist.