Dunno how else to call it. Got me a job. It’s not a bad job. I like the work I do, I tolerate the people there, the hours are not long, it’s unionised so they can’t harrass me when I’m off the clock, it pays the bills I got.

… But god damn. Once I’m home I lack the drive to do literally anything.

I’ve stopped going to gym, I often eat junk cuz I just don’t wanna cook, even my hobbies are being left to gather dust. After working my 9-to-5 I just wanna lie down and rot until it’s work time again.

So the question is, how do the better-adjusted adults handle this?

  • Count Regal Inkwell@pawb.socialOP
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    9 hours ago

    Sorry for your loss, mate

    And thanks for the advice. Even if right now I want to make sad animal noises at the idea of “just doing it”.

    • Master@sh.itjust.works
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      8 hours ago

      Baby steps. Just pick one small thing and do it… I say this as I fight against “just do it” myself… Its so fucking hard. I get it. But again. It wont fix itself magically.